Today is National Coming Out Day and I wanted to put a post on my blog to honor those who are brave enough and in a safe enough situation to live their lives out of the closet. Today isn't just about coming out gay, either. You can come out about any aspect of yourself that you keep hidden. Are you a nerd? Do you leave piles of dirty dishes in the sink? Are you a (gasp) nose fetishist? Whatever you want to come out about, today is the perfect day to do it. Or, if you are already out, celebrate the fact that you are able to be honest while others are not so lucky.
As many of you know, I'm only out to my mother, not my father or anyone else in my family. In fact, there are some in my family who I would prefer die before they have even a hint of the activities I have engaged in during my short life. I'm out to many of my friends, but not all, because I know some of them wouldn't understand and the other usual reasons. The sad fact is I went to college in Northwest Ohio where people are not as accepting as downtown San Francisco. So many of my friends would have a problem with my lifestyle.
To honor those who are out, I will re-announce my status as a pansexual. What is a pansexual, you ask? Well, essentially it is a label. One that I think fits me best. My reasoning for being pansexual and not bisexual is that I don't really see the world in terms of two genders. I see all genders and all gender permutations (transgender, those who are fluid in gender) as equally sexual beings. It is probably a polite way of saying that I'll fuck a person if they're moving, but it is really how I feel. I also like that the word sounds like the god Pan, who I happen to resemble a great deal with my beard and mane of yellow hair.
Also, in honor of this wonderful day, I have decided to post a couple of pictures I recently took in my new apartment (I finally have a decent mirror).
|Here I am in all my hard, naked glory.|
|Here is my cock and my hair brush side by side for size comparison.|
So whether you're gay, straight, black, white, out, in, whatever. At least you get to look at some Ace Candy while you enjoy what I'm sure will be a wonderful Tuesday.