T.J. was the brother of a friend of a friend when I first met him. The friend of a friend is now a full friend, but T.J. has always been on the sidelines of my attention. This was mostly because he and I only ran into each other about three times a year, including a long weekend in the summer when a large group of teens would get together and hang out. He was younger by about a year, and way less mature than the rest of us. So when we were in a large group together, he would frequently be on the outskirts, always leaving at the earliest chance he had to hang out with his own friends. It was no big loss, he wasn't very close to me or my friends. He was funny, but not exactly blessed with common sense when it came to the right things to do and say.
In fact, the only real impression T.J. ever really had on my life was a really fun afternoon we spent together having sex one summer a few years ago. It was one of those quick flings that happen every now and then when a person you sort of know just happens to be in the right place at the right time. This time it happened to be the hotel room when no one else was around and we were both sweaty and needing a shower. Sitting around in just towels turned into a fun look through the hotel's on-demand porn, which turned into a realization that T.J. was very interested in cock.
It was news to me, though apparently people that knew him well pretty much knew that he was no stranger to sucking and fucking other guys. I had just never spent enough time with him or shown enough attention to him to figure it out.
We started jerking off while watching a (fairly bad) porn. But soon all that pretense was dropped and we were making out and rolling around on the bed. I loved grabbing his afro in my hands and pulling. It was so soft and so squishy that I kept the make out session going a little long just so I could play with it a while more. Not the worst reason I've made out with someone, but definitely one of the more unusual.
He was a rather attractive guy. Thin, but not too skinny. His ass was nice and plump and screaming to be spanked. He had big nipples that were very sensitive, and his lips left big wet marks on my skin. His cock was a nice, thick piece of meat with a head that stayed under his long foreskin even when rock hard.
The sex itself was not great. Neither one of us was prepared to bottom, nor did we want to in case one of our friends showed up. So it came down to us on the bed in a sixty-nine while I gave my usual good blowjob and he struggled to suck on half of my cock. He had experience with guys, but by this time in my life I had a ton of experience and was showing him up. But we both came and that was enough to get us both relaxed.
Unfortunately we were sort of walked in on together a little while later while sitting on the bed in just our underwear. Because of the way our group was (read: overly-interested in drama) we became the token couple for the rest of the time there. It even got to the point where one mutual friend who was engaged began talking about us going to her wedding together, even going so far as to talk about how handsome we both would look dancing together in our matching tuxes. Things got a little awkward when we had to explain to everyone that we were not an item. Things got more awkward when I had to explain to his current boyfriend that he and I were not an item. Eventually we said good-bye at the end of the weekend, and moved on with our lives.
Ironically that was the last time I saw him in person. He went off to college and I went back to college, and we just never bothered to stay in contact. Very recently, however, I learned that he has gotten fairly ugly recently, apparently because he drinks a lot of iced coffee every day and no longer works out. He has also flunked out of college and basically stated that he has no interest in furthering his education. Oh, and he is also engaged to marry a girl who is said to be a real bitch by just about everyone who has met her.
Learning this was kind of a surprise. I thought, "Where is the cute gay guy I once had a nice afternoon with?" What could have happened to this kid who, while not incredibly smart, still was intelligent and funny? How did he go from the guy I connected with for that short time to this man who is hitting every boulder on his way to rock bottom? It isn't the first time an old lover has turned up married or engaged or even with kids. It is the first time that the change has been so shocking and dramatic.